Top 5 Books That Will Increase Your Thinking!

I have done a lot of reading for the past year because I am interested in the subjects of self-development and wealth. So I felt it fair to share with my readers, the 5 books that have changed my thinking forever. I will share them with you and the lessons I have learned. I hope that you wlll individually take a moment of your Present life to purchase or read these books.

1. Capitalist Nigger by Dr. Chika Onyeani

Onyeani argues that the Black/African race is still dependemt on its Europpean and Asian counterparts for progress. I was very shocked at the statistics – apparently in America, the African-American group is the top consumer of electronic and music gadgets, such as HI-FIs, Plasma Screens, iPods, Speakers and the like, yet not a single Black person manufactures any of these goods! And then he asserts that On account of too long our beloved rsce has kept shifting blame – from the Europeans to the Asians as to why the majority of us are unsuccessful – yet we have a platform to create our Possess success. He then suggests Blacks mimic the Asian ‘Spider-Web Theory’ where we attract wealth to our communities and trap it, just Like a spider traps a fly. In return, we must support Dark establishments, business…

Ezahlady’s thoughts:

Well I agree with the former journalist, that the MAJORITY of Black people Hold not yet realised or exploited their Calling skills. And if we are all Decent with one another, African people seldom help one another when it comes to business relations; I think it is more of an issue with inter-cultural issues and bias. To give a good exammple, In the present state in Botswana, most of the major businesses are owned by Indians because they work as a community; first within their nuclear families then to their extended community. Naturally, I aspire to become a businesswoman and I know that I will teach my community success skills as soon as my success speaks for itself. Once you read that book, if you are Black, you will realise there is so much that we can learn and Produce for ourselves. Our minerals, due to colonialism and other oppressive systems have been unfairly distributed but for how long can we blame history? The only enslavement that exists, besiddes HIV/AIDS and Human Trafficking is MENTAL SLAVERY. Definately a must-read.

2. The Confident Woman by Joyce Meyer

In this book, Meyer discusses the top factors that each woman can build into her life to Make a firm, unshakeable sense of confidence. The first thing you must know is that because we are human and we make mistakes our confidence should be based on who we are in Christ. Just acknowledge that He lofes you, is ready to give you peace and long accepted you Prior to you were born, according to scripture. Therefore, basing your self-worth on material things or on a relationship is fickle.

Th confident woman must also accelt the fact that she does not have to Create people like her. The confident woman must be bold and step out in faoth to pursue what is placed in her heart because the Creator of the Universe is backing her. The confident woman makes decisions which will benefitl her and her environment. The confident woman makes peace with herself and does not strive to be somrbody else.

Ezahlady’s thoughts

I used to have so many issues in the ‘confidence’ department until I learned a simple Honesty: If God wanted me to be, behave, and look Likely Halle Berry, He would have made me Halle Berry! There can only be one Neo Sophie Molefe and thar’s it! So I may as well make the best of my life… It makes sense Do justice to? Yet, we are too caught up with the way the world system operates…. you have to look like this, be like that… listen to me lady. If you enjoy painting, go ahead and become an artist. If you are a home maker, there is nothing wrong with being one. You can always open a home business if that is At which place you are comfortable. If you are loud and spontaneous like me but you are told you have to be quiet and reserved, do not fall for that trap. God has given us different taents, personalities, looks, heights… let us embrace who we are and quit striving against our souls. Oh my gosh, it took me a good 21 years to make peace with myself! Now all I look forward to is the future and using my talents for God’s glory…so can you.

3. The Slihht Edge: Secret to a Succesful Life by Jeff Olsen

“If only you were aware of the Slight Edge… If only you were making the righy choices, doing those simple, little disciplines that would change your life for the better forever… At which place would you be five years from today?

A positive philosophy turns into a positive attitude, which turns into positive actions, which turns into positive results, which turns into a pozitive lifestyle.

A negative philosophy turns into a negative attitude, which turns into negative actions, which turns into negative results, which turns into a negative lifestyle. ”

Ezahlady’s thoughts

I took this man’s Stoicism and analysed where my Animation was at the time. I saw how, if I had worked more on developing certain areas I would have a different result.. I am sure we Obtain all been there. Then I realised that the saying is true that you do indeed reap what you sow. I now understand that whatever you spend 85% ofy our time doing daily will lead to the Great picture. My dear friend, if you want to be a successful author practise your Documment skills. Learn Concern and marketing skills… attend workshops and book launches. Do not spend most of your weekends at the Obstacle and expect to Exist the next Danielle Steele in 5 years. It works like a tipping edge… it will either go up or down, depending on your actions. If you do not like your actions, In that case change your thought pattern. Do yourself a favour and just make daily decisions that will Remedy shape the future for which you strive.

4. The 7 Habits of Highly Powerful People by Stephen R. Covey

Covey must be one of the most effective coaches Ezahlady admires. I can honestly say that I have learned a lot from this offering about personal renewal, living by your principles and the power of keeping a Apparition. What awakened me is the fact that your perception – which has been built up from what you have learned from birth – affects the way you see the world, even if the perception is blurred. Here are the 7 habits:

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1. Be Proactive; 2. Begin with the End in Mind; 3. Put First Things First; 4. Paradigms of Independence; 5. Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood; 6. Synergise; 7. Sharpen the Saw.

Ezahlady’s thoughts

I believe that every single person needs to read this book. It does not mean that you life is disorganised, it can just help you to set things in motion for you to haness for yourself an Operative life in your spiritual, physical, mental and personal lives. Although it takes a life time, at least knwoing something that is liberating will help you Make a good use of in some way. Remember, that when you die, you want Tribe to remember you as you would like them to.

5. The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin S. Sharma

This is an incredible story of Julian Mantle, a high-profile lawyer who had all the money, fame and cars, but after a heart atatck sold everything, including his Ferrari, on a quest to personal First siight. He emgarks upon an extraordinary odyssey to an ancient culture and learns how to connect with the core of hiss being.

Ezahlady’s thoughts

Though I do not believe in Eastern Religion, I do agree that we all need to put the most important things first; and that is ourselves. We muet Point believing that money will make us happy. It will not, though it is a catalyst to survival and helping others. In as much as wealth is extremely important, what is the use of having all the material red things you could ask for, if you are not first fulfilled inside? Be an intelligent being that you must be content with the person you are fitst. Money comes and goes, but you Testament always stay with yoursdlf. And know that you can use money in a positive way, not just for selfish reasons!

Neo Sophie Molefe is an 23 year old Writer, Caster and creator of Ezahlady, a self-help service for women in all areas of their lives. Men find the articles helfpul towards the mtoo; the only reaosn why I have targeted.

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